As human beings, we all have our own share of pain and struggles. It’s an inevitable part of life. But what sets us apart is how we choose to deal with it. Some people find solace in sharing their pain with others, while others choose to keep it to themselves.
For me, I have always been the type of person who prefers to share my wisdom and maturity rather than my pain. The reason for this is that I have noticed that when I share my pain, many people do not have the ability to see it separate from themselves. They start to feel it, and it scares them. Their brains take over and start creating different stories, which can be detrimental to their mental health.
Instead, I have found that sharing my experiences and the wisdom I have gained from them is a more effective way to reach people’s hearts. When I share out of wisdom, I feel and see that I am able to connect with people on a deeper level. There is no longer the pain or fear, only the picture of the outcome. This gives people an understanding that by teaching, we put people into one option, but by sharing experiences and giving options, people get liberated and motivated.
Sharing my wisdom has also helped me to heal from my pain. It has allowed me to see my struggles as opportunities for growth and learning. By sharing the lessons I have learned, I can turn my pain into something positive and meaningful.
However, it’s important to note that while sharing wisdom can be healing and inspiring, it’s equally important to surround yourself with supportive and uplifting people. These are the people who will motivate you and help you grow, rather than taking your power away.
Finding a supportive and motivating person in whatever it is that you do is crucial to your personal growth and success. This person should uplift and inspire you, rather than taking your power away. When you surround yourself with people who believe in you and your goals, it can be a powerful source of motivation. They can offer guidance and support when you need it most, and they can help you see things from a different perspective.
On the other hand, being around people who don’t support your vision or goals can be detrimental to your growth. They may criticize your efforts, doubt your abilities, or even try to sabotage your progress. This can be discouraging and demotivating, and it can take away from your power and self-confidence.
It’s important to be selective about the people you surround yourself with. Choose those who inspire and uplift you, who believe in you and your potential, and who are willing to support you on your journey. These people can help you reach your full potential and achieve your dreams.
In summary, finding your person and making sure that person motivates you, rather than taking your power away, is crucial to your personal growth and success. Surround yourself with supportive and uplifting people who believe in you and your goals, and you will be on your way to achieving your full potential. And when you share your experiences and wisdom, you can turn your pain into something positive and inspire others to do the same.